Monday, November 8, 2010

12 Ways To Get and Attract More True Friends Like a Magnet

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Well it is very easy to make friends but building a very strong foundation in a relationship called friendship is not an easy task. True friends are not only born but they are made whereby some circumstances lead them to get to know each other in a better way. One of the desire of human beings is the social acceptance whereby friends are at the top of the list. There is a saying goes as the man who can make friends easily will break them easily too. There are certain ways of finding true friends which have been proven to improve a person's health and even financial status too. All of us are magnets that attracts each other with any single similarities. This magnet can be used in a perfect manner that can result in attracting friends or to be precise true friends like a magnet.

1. Facebook of course!!!friendship
Well it is obvious that the world's largest social networking site is the ultimate tool to get and attract more friends. Even I was able to get a friend whom shares same interest with me when we are miles away.

2. Run Baby Run!
Go for jogging everyday near your place especially in public parks where you can meet different kinds of people and mingle around to have some good chat while jogging (One of the techniques that my mom uses to make new friends)

3. Where's your six packs?
Each and everyone of us have 24 hours in our lives which we can divide them into three parts where we will have 8 hours of sleep, 8 hours of work and 8 hours of free time. The one hour of the free time can be used to make some friends and build your body too. Go!!!

4. Blow Off Your TV!
I'm serious here. Just break your television set into pieces for it is draining your time off by making you to sit at place and get your energy and time poured for it. Simply sacrifice your favorite shows and spend more time with your friends.

5. It begins from your home.
If you are not friendly with your family members then do not expect that you will get and attract more friends because how you do anything is how you do everything. Learn to be a very good friend to your mom, dad, sister, brother and even your favorite pets. Listen to them...

6. World's most infectious disease - Smile
Learn to smile at strangers that you meet at bookstores, library, shopping malls and even in washrooms. The infectious smile can make the person to smile at you back with an interest to know you more and better. Remember that you must give a genuine smile not a smile that does not resembles your character.

7. Be a good listener.
A good and true friend is a good listener. Friends are not only to have fun and spend a good deal of time but they are here to give us their shoulders whenever we are in trouble. No matter how silly or small the problem is learn to listen to their heart and do not interrupt as they are talking. The world loves the one who talks less and do more. So start listening now...

8. Are you good at problem solving?
If not start to train yourself now to solve any problems. Remember as you are being able to solve a problem of your friend, there will be a word of mouth marketing about your deeds which will attract the friend of friends of your friends to be friend with you through your friend. Yeah that's a lot of friends....

9. Initiate the conversation my love...
Well it is a fact that there is no such thing as something for nothing. Definitely you must give something when a person gives a thing to you. In this case give the stranger the first conversation kicker to initiate the chat session. Be the first person always...It's healthy... trust me.

10. Do you love yourself?
If you don't then nobody will. The law is simple. When you love yourself for who you are then the magnet will attract more and more people into your lives for you to pour the love that you have in excess to them. Have a candle light dinner with yourself often.

11. Be yourself....that's the secret baby...
Well the ultimate truth is to be yourself, your real self to the people around you. Be honest to your friends or to the people that you meet in your life daily. Originality wins better and lasts long compared to counterfeits....BE, DO, and BREATH as who you are!!!

12. It's all yours....
This is the space for you to include any ideas or methods that will help us to attract more friends. Drop some of your thoughts in the comments below on how to attract more friends. Thank you so much.

I wish you Happiness and Success,

A friend is one who knows you and loves you just the same.
Elbert Hubbard
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